I have decided.......
When choosing "fight or flight",
FLIGHT IS THE WRONG CHOICE.
It feels better for a minute but with it comes disappointments in ones self.
It is harder to fight and sometimes hurts.
One may not do a great job of it as one may be unskilled.
However, a person does learn that way.
Doing things differently IS so uncomfortable.
ONE CAN remain charitable and kind without being the worlds door mat.